10 Underrated Men and Why You Should Date Them

 

10 UNDERRATED MEN AND WHY YOU SHOULD DATE

 GUYS YOU OFTEN OVERLOOK WHEN DATING THE AVAILABILITY OF SLOVAK MEN IS MOSTLY ABOUT THE MAT. IF THERE ARE 10 SINGLE MEN AT A PARTY AND YOU DISQUALIFY 9 OF THEM, YOUR PROBABILITY WILL MEET MR. SUMMARY RIGHT UNDER 10% (THE REASON IT'S 'BELOW' IS BECAUSE, REMEMBER, IT NEEDS NOT TO DISQUALIFY YOU). WHEN YOU TAKE THAT SAME CONCEPT AND APPLY IT TO OUR DAILY LIVES, THE RESULT IS THAT VERY FEW WOMEN MEET AND THEN DATE MEN. THE AVERAGE NUMBER OF APPOINTMENTS MY CLIENTS HAVE BEFORE WORKING WITH ME IS 3-5 PER YEAR (AND I'M STARTING TO THINK THIS IS THE RULE AND NOT THE EXCEPTION). TO INCREASE THE NUMBER OF MEN YOU DATE, YOU CAN DO 2 ESSENTIAL THINGS: 1) WIDE YOUR SOCIAL CIRCLES. 2) OPEN YOUR MIND TO NEW MEN. TODAY WE'RE FOCUSING ON #2 - THE FOLLOWING LIST INCLUDES 10 TYPES OF MEN THAT MOST WOMEN DISQUALIFY AND I RECOMMEND YOU TAKE A SECOND LOOK. UNDER 5'5 GUYSHEIGHT IS THE NUMBER ONE REQUEST I HEAR FROM MY MOST DESIRED CLIENTS COME IN 6 FEET. BUT THE SAME CLIENTS ARE SURPRISED TO KNOW THAT ONLY 14 PERCENT OF US MEN MEET OR EXCEED THIS ENVIRONMENTAL LEVEL. HEIGHT IS SEARCHED FOR THE FEELING OF MASCULINITY IT EMBODIES. HOWEVER, MASCULINITY IS A COMBINATION OF PHYSICAL PERFECTION (HEIGHT IS ONLY PART OF THIS COMPONENT), COURAGE AND HONOR - HE CAN BE VERTICALLY DIFFICULT, BUT IF HE MAKES IT UP IN OTHER AREAS, THIS GUY IS A KEEPER! INVERTED GUYS 30-50% OF MEN ARE ALLEGEDLY INVERTED. THIS MEANS THERE ARE UP TO 20 MILLION SINGLE MEN IN THE U.S. I OFTEN SAY INTROVERTS ARE INVISIBLE IN A DATING SCENARIO BECAUSE THE LOST IS UNLIKELY TO APPROACH YOU AND YOUR DOMINANT, EXTROVERT COUNTERPART CAN OVERBE. THE QUIET GUY IS THE ONE YOU SHOULD ENGAGE IN CONVERSATION — RESEARCH SHOWS THEY'RE THE MOST ROMANTIC LOVERS! NO FLAVA GUYS IN THIS GET MY COUSINS, FEMALE FRIENDS AS WELL (SORRY LADIES!)...I ALWAYS HEAR ABOUT THE GUY WHO WAS THROWN AWAY BECAUSE HE DOESN'T KNOW WHY YOU'RE A SBOTTOM , HIS SUITS ARE NOT CUSTOM MADE AND HE'S TOO HANDSOME. THE "HE'S A CORN COCK" EXCUSE CAN ONLY LAST FOR SO LONG. HAVING A 'FLAVA' DOESN'T SAY ANYTHING ABOUT WHAT IS MOST IMPORTANT, BEING A HUSBAND AS WELL AS THE FATHER TO YOUR KIDS...'FLAVA' IS LIKE A KRISPY KREMECESSA HOT DONUT CUTTER...NICE BUT NO NOT THE BEST. NON-BLACKS, YOU WILL NOT FIND A STRONGER ADVOCATE FOR BLACK MARRIAGE THAN ME (THE MAIN REASON I FOUNDED MY MATCHMAKING COMPANY). BUT THE IDEA OF "NOT GIVING UP" BECAUSE YOU'RE AFRAID OF WHAT YOUR FRIENDS AND FAMILY WILL SAY WHEN YOU BRING HIM TO A 4TH OF JULY BARBECUE IS UNFAIR TO YOUR SEARCH FOR LOVE. DON'T BE AFRAID TO BRING HOME A WHITE BOY! MAMMA'S BOY GUYS PEACE FAVORITE TWITTER SHOW CALLED MODERN DAY MATCHMAKER WEDNESDAY WHERE I MATCH A BACHELOR OR BACHELORE. I'VE NEVER SEEN A BACHELOR DISAPPEAR QUICKER THAN WHEN SOMEONE SAYS HE'S A MOMMA'S BOY. IRONICALLY, A MAN'S RELATIONSHIP TO HIS MOTHER OFTEN INDICATES HOW HE WILL TREAT HIS WIFE. GIVE THESE GUYS ANOTHER CHANCE... LONG DISTANCE GUYS, GREATEST PEOPLE ARE LOOKING FOR SOMEONE WITHIN 25 MILES OF THEIR HOME... THEY THINK THEY WILL SEE THEM OFTEN. HOWEVER, THE INTERESTING THING IS THAT MOST OF US HUSBANDS SEE LESS THAN 20 HOURS A WEEK (BESIDES LONG WORK DAYS, TRAVEL, ETC.). AS LONG AS PLANES ARE FLYING I'M FOR DATING EVERYWHERE...DON'T LET DISTANCE STOP YOU...MOST OF US WOULD RELOCATE FOR CAREERS OR EDUCATION...WHY NOT EXTEND THE SAME IDEA ABOUT LOVE?UNEMPLOYED GUY SITUATION OUR ECONOMY HAS FORCED A LOT OF GREAT GUYS INTO INVOLUNTARY UNEMPLOYMENT . HE MAY NOT HAVE A JOB TODAY, BUT TOMORROW HE COULD BE A VP AT A FORTUNE 500 COMPANY. IF HIS VALUES MATCH YOUR OWN AND YOU CAN TELL THAT HE HAS A STRONG CAUSE AND DETERMINATION, LOOK AT THIS GUY IN HARD TIMES AND BETTER DAYS AHEAD. TOO YOUNG/OLD GUY SHOW HOW MANY TIMES HAVE YOU SAID YOU ARE 5 YEARS OLDER OR YOUNGER THAN YOU (OR SOME VARIATION OF THIS)? WE NEED TO REMOVE THE MENTAL LABELS FROM AGE REQUIREMENTS ON RANKING. IF WE WANT SOMEONE WHO CAN "RELATE" TO US, THE NUMBER DOESN'T NECESSARILY DETERMINE IT. PUT YOUR BOUNDARIES AWAY AND PLENTY OF NEW POTENTIAL WILL OPEN UP (UNTIL YOU'RE RUNNING A SCHOOL FIELD!) A CLIENT'S FAVORITE LINE WAS THE MAN SHE REFUSED TO DATE SOMEONE WITH A BIGGER SCARF. "ACCORDING TO MY RESEARCH, BEING HEAVY IS THE SECOND LOST DESIRABLE CHARACTERISTIC IN A MEN (JUST BEHIND BEING SHORT - NO TOY INTENDED). LET'S FACE IT, WE ARE A NATION OF PEOPLE WHO ARE OVERWEIGHT AND TRYING TO LOSE WEIGHT. IF WE MAKE HEALTH A PART OF YOUR LIFESTYLE, CHANCE IT'S THAT HE'S TAKING SOME OF YOUR HEALTHY HABITS. MY WIFE AND I MOTIVATE EACH OTHER THROUGH FITNESS CHALLENGES. FRIENDLY COMPETITION CAN BRING SWEET REWARDS! IT DOESN'T MEAN HE'LL NEVER FIGURE OUT HOW TO REMOVE HIS FLUSH OR THAT FLOSSING IS NOT EXCLUSIVELY DOP-TOP . "SHOPPING" IS ONE STYLE OF DATING, BUT I PREFER "INVESTMENT". LOOK AT EVERY POSSIBLE SPOUSE OF YOURS FROM THE INSIDE OUT - MAYBE THE INVISIBLE CHARACTERISTICS ARE WORTH MUCH MORE THAN THE ONES THAT ARE VISIBLE. ALL BEAUTIFULLY CUT DIAMONDS STARTED IN THE ROUGH.